I’m really not good at this. I’m all about favors and exchanging and bartering, but my mind isn’t good at all with donating and giving and volunteering. When I force myself I always thoroughly enjoy it and the feelings associated, but I just have some sort of barrier there.
I think it comes from my parents being victims, poor and always needing handouts.
Thankfully my wife is one of the most giving people I have ever known.