be a good wife

I think i’m doing a good job with this goal…haven’t heard any complaints =)
I let him get a set of golf clubs and agreed to go to the driving range with him tonight. Bonus points for me, to be redeemed at a later date LOL

Tonight is Dan’s annual Christmas work party, and once again signifigant others are not invited. I feel a lot of resentment about him going without me, especially since he’ll be dressed up, having a nice dinner, going to a show, dancing, things that we never take the time out to do together anymore. I know that he would take me out if I wanted to go, but I hate always being the one to suggest outings, I’m the spontaneous one, or at least I used to be. Maybe I will try to think up a fun night out for us next week, and then suggest that we should do things like that more often.

I haven’t been the most fun to be around this first year of our marriage, what with all the changes (getting married, moving to a new country, finishing school, job hunting, etc.). But through it all, my husband has been 200% supportive, always trying to put a smile on my face or find a solution to a problem that I’m having. He always puts my needs first before his own, and now its time that I start doing the same for him. I really need to work on being more positive, more attentive, and show him how thankful I am to have him in my corner pulling for me.