erihu in Lowell is doing 31 things including…

Get revenge by living well.

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erihu has written 3 entries about this goal

every day 3 years ago

that i get out of bed, leave the house, drive somewhere, go out with friends, and enjoy life, i am getting the sweetest of revenge!!!
for all those people that told me i wouldn’t succeed: bite me
i am a success in ways you could never even fathom!!!!!!
i have been to hell and back (i even know the back roads if you want a shortcut!) and you couldn’t stop me or hold me back..
every time you have tried to crush me, i have triumphed over you by having a great life in spite of your negativity….and so i have my revenge



please don't get me wrong... 3 years ago

the examples given in the previous entry were putting an exclamation point (!) on the point of doing it my way. by proving them wrong, i am succeeding in so many areas of my life.
1. i have a job that i enjoy doing (and the hours RULE!!!)
*2. i have a great husband who i am more in love with every day
*3. i am true to myself, i won’t pull off some pretensious (spelling???) act and truly be happy. i wouldn’t be able to look myself in the mirror and really *look
into my own eyes. i wouldn’t be able to face anyone, or look them in the eye. i wouldn’t be proving them wrong!!!
HA!
who’s laughing now?
each day brings more and more everything. more knowledge, understanding, happiness, wonder, joy, and love.
Please, keep this in mind. My sense of revenge extends to admitting when i’m wrong. if i am wrong, and i know it, i’ll admit it. if i don’t know it, tell me and i’ll admit it. i won’t say it if i’m not wrong.
sometimes, the correct thing to do is i don’t say the words “i am right” unless i’m surprised by this and then it has the question mark on the end.
i get my revenge with positivity. and i enjoy it too. because, way in the back of my mind, i’m saying :P



proving people wrong... 3 years ago

sometimes, i’ll do things just to prove them wrong. when my own mother said i wouldn’t graduate high school, i did it with honors. when people said i wouldn’t get married, i had a wedding they STILL talk about 6 years later (it was our perfect day!)...
i think it’s one of the sweetest forms of revenge: proving they are wrong.
let them think they know it all, then smack ‘em in the face with a cold dose of reality!!! then, they feel half an inch big (and about as smart) at least for a moment & i feel better. best of all, no harm to anyone (egos don’t count! lol)



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