raise a son who will be a wonderful husband one day

I want so much for my little boy…but I realize that this goal is a trap. Not only do I have no control over what kind of husband my son will be, I also have no control over what kind of lover he will be or what kind of adult he will be. I am a mother who has given birth to an INDIVIDUAL. I belive that it is unfair to think that I can mold him into the “perfect” little man. All I can do is influence him and teach him obedience,manners,cleanliness,academics and morals. And then PRAY that these lessons remain throughout adulthood. What will never change is the LOVE that I have for this human being.

Every parent has high hopes for their children. But one very important quality I would like my son to have is RESPECT for woman. He has to learn how to be a provider…granted I am not a man but I really want my son to be responsible for the children he makes and respectful of the woman in his life.