There are so many pros and cons regarding this issue but in summary:
At the moment, I’m doing a course to teach English overseas, and plan to move over to Japan sometime early next year.
Before I started the course, I’d agreed to move out with a friend and the topic comes up every time we see each other- which recently is quite often. She knows about my Japan plan (ha ha) and I try to refer to it when I can.
A huge part of me wants to move out with her BUT another huge part of me can see the logic of just staying at home and saving everything. I pay $60pwk at home ‘board.’ That’s pretty good compared to renting!
POINT: I don’t know what do- so how can I say what I “feel?” Perhaps I should tell her exactly what I’ve written here- which would take a lot of ‘courage’ especially considering her particular temperament… Don’t know. Big big big question