I’ve written a lot about balances, cards, interest rates, big expenses…
But if I’m going to tell the story of getting out of credit card debt, I really need to tell the story of my relationship with The Budget.
Capitalized. It is that important to my way of life.
I use Mint to keep track of my accounts, transactions, trends and in general, consolidate the information that is scattered all over my mind and desk and life. I use its Budget feature obsessively; I live and die by The Budget. Well, maybe not live and die, but definitely eat, shop and improve by it. What’s really great is that it’s available on my iPhone – I can see how I’m doing on The Budget while I’m considering a purchase. Of course, I check it every day, several times a day – so I’m not even considering a purchase with it out of my mind.
I budget the expenses I feel like I can control. Auto insurance is not in The Budget. Neither is the phone bill, electrical bill, taxes, fees, auto maintenance or the mortgage. Just about everything else is.
I budget home improvement. I could run out right now and buy the supplies for half a dozen projects on the house, but I wouldn’t get them done – I’d just have the materials. Budgeting this means I don’t buy things until I’m ready to use them and will get it done. This month I’m way over on the home improvement budget, because I finally got the bathroom renovation done, and there were some expenses I didn’t foresee…but I didn’t buy anything for something other than the bathroom, and am not ready to start the next project. I think it also forces me to space out the home improvement projects, think through them carefully, and not burn out on my fixer-upper.
I also budget shopping and hobbies. These are easy ones to go over on, and also the easiest to save money on. I don’t know about you, but I have a stash of stamps and paper and yarn and fabric big enough to work on for months, if not years. This is the rainy day I’ve been stashing for – not a time when I’d have free time to do a lot of knitting or crafting, but a time when I’d be doing more than I could afford to re-supply. I spend most of this budget on consumables and things that wear out – and again, projects that are actually getting done.
The food, coffee and restaurant budgets are the ones I struggle with a lot. I firmly believe that going cheap on food leads to poor nutrition, mental state, and being overweight. I have enough problems with that as it is! So I focus a lot on eating well, but eating well at home. I spend a lot of money on produce at farmers’ market, fish when it looks good, and coffee. Starbucks is my splurge; I go at least 4 or 5 times a week. But I don’t eat out more than $20 a month – usually when I have no other choice, like on a road trip or when I didn’t have time to pack a bag lunch or leftovers.
Fuel is another budget I struggle with – I don’t let it keep me from going places with friends or family – but I do consider it when I’m thinking of going to pick up a CL find, or check out yardsales, or other gratuitous trips that tend to be trips to spend money I don’t have on things I don’t need. The fuel budget lets me remember that the cost of an item is not just in its purchase price, and lets me feel virtuous for staying in rather than like a lump.
I roll-over my Pet budget month to month. Vet bills can get out of hand, so most months, I’m way under budget since I’m spending on food, treats, classes and toys. I try to keep the toy budget under control, but again – I don’t scrimp on food. Or classes – a good obedience class is worth its weight in gold. But the budget at least lets me keep track of what and how much I’m spending on the animals, order medications when I’m under, and spread out of the vet bills.
My cash budget is where I “balance” all of these budgets. I use it for more coffee than $25/month. I pay for a lot of my farmers’ market purchases in cash…especially the “want” not “need” items like chevre, drinkable yogurt or a croissant. Sometimes I’ll recategorize a cash withdrawal as “food” or “coffee” or “shopping,” the same way I’ll recategorize part of a credit card payment as “cash” if someone is reimbursing me for picking something up for them.
All in all, I spend about $1000 on my budgets. Like I said before, the distinctions are rather artificial – since I don’t include car maintenance, or gifts, or some other random things. And I usually go over on the total budget every month.
But in general, having my budget makes me spend consciously. It lets me feel responsible for every time money goes out, and in control. I get to feel virtuous for living within my means, and rewarded, since my debt balance is dropping. I still get to use my credit cards, I still get to spend on myself in tiny ways.
And it’s a good thing, since this budget? Is here to stay.