The reason:
20 months ago
People tend to take advantage of my niceness. I can’t imagine how on earth I could stop this, but I need to because I can’t afford it and it brings me down.
I don’t want to stop being nice. Not completely. But I don’t know when to draw the line or how to cut off the friends to whom I’ve been too nice until this point. Though I know that if they don’t want me if I don’t give them things or if I say no once in a while they’re not worth it, it’s more complicated than that.
Any advice would be great.
