itsasecret in Randolph is doing 34 things including…

be more assertive

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itsasecret has written 15 entries about this goal

I know I'm getting better about doing this

I have to do it more without shouting or arguing. I haven’t been shouting as much as my mother but sometimes she doesn’t listen enough either. I hope i can move out soon. It will definitely improve my relationship with my parents.



the only way to get through to my father is to yell

When i move i can hang up on him without yelling which will still be better



I asked Jeff to stop bringing up something that was bothering

He did and i didn’t even have to yell:)



Once I move

I think i’ll have a better relationship with my parents. Not that we always fight, but probably more often than i should. I probably get mad at other sometimes and yell at them because their there. I don’t always do everything they ask right away but i guess i shouldn’t shout that i’m not going to do it.



I wish i had been more assertive in the past

I still can’t figure out how to be assertive without overdoing it.



I might stand up more to my parents than i should

but i don’t think i should have to do everything just because i still live with them



I have been standing up more myself

I just have to figure out how to without shouting like a maniac … LOL



I haven't give into Baby Bastard

even though he started calling again and I don’t plan on it. I don’t care if he thinks i’m being mean or something like that. He just won’t grow up and it’s not my fault and i don’t have to be there for him. He doesn’t know how to be a friend and he doesn’t deserve my friendship.



I am far better at this than 5 years ago

I think this site has really helped me know i don’t have to put up with people’ shit.



i think to avoid people who try and make me lose my temper

people who just want to get under my skin then i can stay in control.



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