frumpy in Hessen is doing 35 things including…

keep in touch with old friends


 

frumpy has written 1 entry about this goal

Last year (2007) I really got better at it...

... and I really enjoyed it! I think it all is a question of one’s perspective on the friendship:

If I feel that the friend is someone from the past, then I regard the relationship as “terminated” and we mostly talk of events gone by and give a short update on the latest news. Nostalgia meetings and conversations like this are nice from time to time, but not really friendships.

If I feel that the friendship is for today and tomorrow, I can share my life with him/her and they share theirs with me. Of course, this is only possible with a few old friends, but it’s worth it!!!

The important thing is to find out which type of friend the person is—and keeping in touch is a good way to do so.



 

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