be happy on my own..not having to rely on someone else for happiness

So I have been finding myself and I’ve become better at being happy on my own. Being able to convert solitude into something positive has become very helpful.

I find myself making more things (craft wise) with each day, and going to work also helps. meeting new people etc etc. Soon I think the house that I abandoned to be in another planet, will be back to looking like someone is actually living and taking care of it.

Well… now that I’m single I am definitely trying to learn how to love myself again… I’ve been fighting through shock, loss, tears, the void that sits and sinks into my heart. Each day I’m finding small pieces that got lost, since I got lost focusing my all to my significant other (now ex). I am thankful that the sun comes out and the skies are blue. Right now I’m riding some crazy roller coaster, but I’ll turn around one day and wonder why I wasted so much of my tears. A friend told me that “yesterday is dead, tomorrow is for the next day, focus on today as if it’s your last. Do everything you want to do that day and don’t live with regrets.” And I’m starting today by deleting all depressing music.