post random questions daily and see if anyone plays with me and answers them :)

And went through and deleted all of my goals that are more like ‘ideas’ and broad topics rather than specific things.
i.e. I deleted ‘Live Passionately’ and ‘Be More Decisive’
Because I can’t easily judge whether or not I’m doing these, and instead I’m going to stick with measurable goals.

So, my question:

Are your 43T goals mor specific or broad? Actual things to accomplish or ways to live? Tangible or no?

Ever seen the movie Chasing Amy?

I was kind of seeing this guy, Diego, a while back but he lives pretty far away and we couldn’t get it to work because my scheule was so busy. We talked for the last time almost two months ago, and it ended with me pretty much breaking his heart without evn meaning to and him drinking again after being sober for 7 months(since he had gotten back from Iraq…) Since we stopped talking I’ve never stopped thinking about him and he got ahold of me the other day and told me that I was his ‘Chasing Amy’ I’ve never seen the movie so I had to look it up to understand what he meant. Now, he has always hated WA, and in a month he has to decide whether to move back to New Jersey or to stay in WA. He also told me that I would be the only reason he would stay, and that he needs to see me before he can make the decision to stay or go. Now here’s my predicament. I’m not ‘in love’ with him as of now, because it just hasn’t grown to that yet, but I do love him, and he is the perfect guy for me except for the distance. But I don’t even know that I’m going to be in WA next year, because of college, and I don’t want to be the only thing to keep him in an area that I know he absolutely hates. I mean, if it didn’t work out he would resent me for the rest of his life in washington. And I want to see him, but my entire month is already filled because of school and cheerleading, and I would need a good two days for driving and seeing him. and I just don’t have the time. He wants me to just blow off school and my games, but he knows me well enough to know that when I make a commitment to something I don’t just ditch it.

Wow, thanks for letting me vent that a bit. Anyways, my questions, along with the one up there are:

Do you have a ‘Chasing Amy’ type story?
Did it end well or bad?
And do you have any lovely advice that could help me out?

I loved him as an actor, and can’t believe he’s gone so young.

Also, what was your favorite film that he starred in? My favorite I think would have to be ‘10 Things I Hte About You’ Classic. —I want you, I need you, Oh baby, oh baby.—

For a bloody nose. Oh yes, I have a history with them but I thought our little love-hate relationship(I hate them, they love me apparently…) was over as of 8th grade.

In the past three days I’ve had five like really hard core, heavy nosebleeds. Soo…

Have you ever had to go into the Emergency Room?

What was wrong with you?

Did the doctors fix the problem or did they just tell you what you already knew and give you advice to do what you already do(like mine did…)?

What is it? I’m reading Candide by Voltaire right now and I find it utterly hilarious. For serious, I mean, it’s insane how dead-on and funny a book, written about 250 years ago by a French philosopher can be even now. I’m loving it. Whats your favorite comedic novel?

...to refresh and rejuvinate yourself?

I have a few outlets…Usually I either take a nice, hot, bubble bath, or I snuggle up in my bed or on the couch, with either with a good book or my notebook so I can write, my music playing just barely loud enough for me to hear the words without straining my ears, my kitty-ma-chew beside me and a steaming cup of coffee or tea…