be a good wife

I want to be a good wife and stop making little arrogent comments to my husband…I feel like he feels like I blame him for stuff, but I don’t mean it that way…I feel like he feels like a critisize, and maybe I do, but I don’t mean to do that either. I don’t know how to get him to help with the housework, except to let it go until it gets so bad that I can’t take it. I just want him to love me forever, like my father loves my mom. I love him the way he is, the housework is my only real complaint. I need to learn how to let more go. He treats me like a queen, I need to treat him like a KING! Not a Page. I need to find ways to let him know that I respect him, and don’t want to emasculate him. I need to stop teasing him so much, and let him make mistakes and learn from them. I love him. I’m proud of him, and I tell him that everyday, but what I need to do is learn not to tell him things that don’t need to be said. I just hope I’m not too late.