be th become the perfect man

I don’t want to be some “perfect man”. I just wanna be myself.

Meantime, maybe by overcoming my fears, I became rather self-confident, relaxed and even got a new fan who calls me “cool”.

Plus, I put having a gf getting laid onto my agenda – and got laid.

So, no need to become a “perfect man”, for that matter.

the reason I am single is my economic instability

• have manners
• look good, that is
  
  • have muscles
  • be groomed
• either have money or a regular income
• ...
• (to be continued)

However, I don’t want to live a working-bee life, and I don’t have muscles either. That’s where the issue begins…

actually, the goal would be a different one. To be the perfect man would be just a vehicle – to become the perfect man: just a hope – to get there. What is that goal?
 

For that reason, I’d consider this goal done, alternatively, once I figure out what the real goal is.

I intentionally chose a goal nobody else is having in this particular wording. Though there are several goals like this: be the perfect man .. marry the perfect man

I intentionally chose an empty “group”, as my way to go after goals might get on people’s nerves: For purpose of motivating myself, usually I headline my posts with an imperative – what to go after, next. So, if you want to get motivated the same way by me or are doing the same just yourself, I welcome you to join. However, don’t blame me when you get peeved this way.