They shouldn’t throw stones. Especially if they are about the ex’s of their signifigant others.
There’s always another side to the story, if one wants to hear it or not is another issue. Here’s a story.
In HS, one of my good friends told me that every month, her mom was the one to sign and send the alimony check to her husband’s ex wife. Her mother got great pleasure out of doing this, or at least satisfaction that the ex was constantly reminded of the “new wife.”
Several years ago, an ex owed me money and slowly paid it back over the course of two years. At one point I started getting checks from his wife (a woman he’d been involved with on the Internet while we were together) in fact, it’s how I found out they were married. In an ironic way, it was all very funny, especially when the check bounced.
Thirteen years after my friend’s mom started writing her checks, her husband left her for another woman. Crappy? Yes. Karmic? Good chance. Could it have been foreseen? Maybe – she was his third wife after all, and he left the rest of them in the same way.
So, for the woman that mentioned me in her blog just days ago, I forgive you for your assumptions about me and the person I am. I’m happy with my life and the person I am, and don’t have ill will towards anyone. In fact, I wish you luck and hope that the intuitive fears you expressed do not realize. But, please be aware, sometimes the past actions of the person you share your life with, especially how they treated their partners, can be a roadmap to the future.
