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growgrowinggrown has written 7 entries about this goal
I’m am not entering the new year married to him…....the goal is to be divorced by December 31, 2008!!!
He told me that he wasn’t going to give me a divorce until he was ready. I know its crazy thinking but once a week I think that he wasnt that bad until I think about the verbal abuse and no sex. but I’m going to stick with my first mind-PAYING BILLS IS NOT EVERYTHING. I’m enjoying my peace.
Okay I told him to move out 2 weeks ago and since then minus one or two days, it has been great. When I walk in from work it feels like the house is not so dark and gloomy anymore. I have been knowing that it was over and his current actions assure me that I made the right decision. Maybe he was going to stay here just as long as I let him. But I do know forsure that he did not want me and I’m okay with that. NO MORE TEARS! THE NEXT ONE WILL BE DESIGNED FOR ME! Heaven sent! I get so excited just thinking about it!
I told him that I will give us both until january 30, 2008 to save some money before we go our seperate ways. I dont think its normal for a married couple tp only have sex twice in a year. (please comment… I know i cannot be wrong). he is a excellent friend and provider but there is more to a marriage/relationship than that. Now he attempts to make me feel guilty, stating that he really wants the relationship to work but I think it is DEAD!
I decided that I am still young. hey, I’m only 31 and there is still time for me to find happiness. I have been in this courthouse marraige for almost 3 years and have yet to take a family trip together. I wouldn’t care if it was the city over. I tired of begging and pleading for him to spend time with me and I am also sick of the mental abuse. after telling him that I wanted a divorce and that I will pay for it, the only thng he can say is “are you sure?”, this is not something that you can turn back! Hell, I dont want to pay for counseling or discuss any of our issues anymore. If nothing has changed in 3 years its not going to change in the future. I feel that GOD has someone else waiting for, all I need to do is get out of this mess.
When I first created my list for 43 things. I was thinking only of improving myself and being a better wife. Now, I’m having second thoughts. Maybe I need to change my goal to Find MYSELF, because I use to keep my appearance up but now I FEEL COMPLETLY EMPTY. I feel like I am drained physical, EMOTIONALLY and mentally. IM sick of having arguing matches.