sample volume is the key to calibration
5 years ago
Having hit the one-year mark post my divorce from the woman I was with for 11 years, I’ve been thinking about how to find love again in the world and create the kind of relationship I’m looking for.
I’ve also been on more than a few dates with women who, even if attractive in various ways, were clearly not future partner candidates. Some would find this discouraging, but so far it has been reassuring me that I’m developing a clearer idea of what kinds of things I’m looking for and looking to avoid. I think more dates will only help here, while continuing to build the confidence to pass up good-but-not-great opportunities that would inevitably yield unhealthy situations.
That said, if I fall in love. . . .
