Have a more fulfilling relationship with my boyfriend

Both my boyfriend and I are on the second big relationship of our lives. He has a baby mama; I have an ex husband and a bankruptcy. So basically we are both starting our lives over with each other. What is hard is the part where we have to wait. Waiting for him to finish school so that we can look to marriage and kids. Waiting for my credit to improve and for another promotion to happen before we can buy a house. I guess these are things I want in order to feel like we are moving forward instead of being in a holding pattern. Two years is coming up for us and I think it will be another two before any of the things we want can happen…so I feel like we need to find mini goals along the path to make it feel like we are making progress in building a life together…any ideas from anyone on what we could do?

In 2007 I separated from my husband of 5 years. I thought at that point I would be back on my way to finding love and happiness. I love my current boyfriend I am with – but at what expense. So I want to see if adding some positive things to the relationship will make it more fulfilling. These are the things I’ve been asking and wanting him to do…and I think we’d be happier if these could happen.

I’d like him to:
~Kiss me, like really, really kiss me. We don’t do that much. (The rest on the list are things we’ve NEVER done together and it’s coming up on 2 years soon)
~Get dressed up and take me to a Broadway show
~Take a bubble bath with me.
~Drive to the ocean together and just sit and watch the sun go down.
~Go to an amusement park and ride the roller coasters with me
~Go hiking with me and picnic somewhere secluded in the wild.
~Ride the gondola to the top of the mountain.

These are adventures I want to share with the person I love. And I’ve requested we do these things – it just never comes to fruition. It’s very frustrating and I feel like if he really loved me, he’d share these things with me. So this is his chance. I have my list…I just want my wishes fulfilled. I mean – isn’t that what relationships are about? Fulfilling each others wishes?