have a child

Some people just don’t get it. They try to be helpful and offer their advice. Do you really think that I need to be told how to make a baby. I think after ten years of trying to conceive I have it down to a science. Sometimes it is better just not to say anything at all. I rather talk about the weather with you than hear about how a friend of a friend got pregnant from eating a banana and standing on her head after sex.

I just think that unless you have been through Infertility or you are doctor you really should use caution on how you talk to people that are struggling with infertility.

Some people just don’t get it. They try to be helpful and offer their advice. Do you really think that I need to be told how to make a baby. I think after ten years of trying to conceive I have it down to a science. Sometimes it is better just not to say anything at all. I rather talk about the weather with you than hear about how a friend of a friend got pregnant from eating a banana and standing on her head after sex.

I just think that unless you have been through Infertility or you are doctor you really should use caution on how you talk to people that are struggling with infertility.

I am not getting any younger. So I have been told. Which really sucks hearing from people that really don’t understand how that sounds to someone that has been trying to conceive for nine years.

I am taking matters into my own hands. I have to get in good health and do what I can to help this along.

we have been trying to have a child since nov.1999. We have tried many different things and still are. Right now…I am trying to lose weight to see if that helps. This seems like a thing that might be on my list forever. I am hoping not. But, It is hard to get your hopes up after seven years of trying. But, we just keep going. Growing, learning and becoming stronger people because of it.