be in a long term relationship

I met my new boyfriend about a month ago. We met as a language exchange, English for him, Spanish for me. Since then we’ve been together constantly. We even go away for little vacations to the beach for the weekends. I really like him, and if situations were different I could see myself with him for a long time. Unfortunately that is 100% impossible. I’m moving back to America for good in a month, and I can’t see myself coming back to Spain anytime soon, because I still have to finish college. I don’t think I would ever try long distance, because I’m not in love (its too soon for that), but I am in serious LIKE, and I hate that moving is the only thing ruining my first really good relationship.

I’ve only had 1 actual official relationship, it lasted 3 months. I would like to have a longer relationship. I’m not really romantic and although I would like to date somebody long term, I’m not willing to just date any guy that tells me he likes me. I want to date somebody who I actually connect well with meantally and physically. I’m having trouble combining the two.