have a successful marriage

I come from a divorced home, so this is very important to me. My husband and i dated for 5 years before we got married and have been married for 3 1/2 years. It’s not all peachy, but I know it can be worse having experienced the worst when i was young. His parents are still married, so he on the other hand see’s a petty little fight as the end of the world. its kinda funny though, and i dont get all wrapped up in the drama anymore. but on the big scale we are doing really well so far. Had our first baby 1 1/2 years ago. She’s great. Money is “stable” but not GREAT, lol. I have this on my list mainly for the long term goal of keeping a successful marriage. :)