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deal more productively with criticism

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Think I'll mark this as "done"

I’ve made a lot of headway in not taking things so personally. Room for improvement, but this is a long, slow project.

Let’s just take a step back. No, I was wrong, I’m sorry, take a step forward. Now, take a step back. Step forward. Back. And then we’re cha-cha-ing!



I think I'm actually getting better at this.

My boyfriend and I figured out that for him, “nagging” is an expression of caring, and he actually feels kind of neglected if I don’t nag him. Whereas I cannot stand to be reminded to do the things that I know I need to do. I don’t see the point. I just want heaps of unqualified affection, and then I can do it on my own. I think it’s just a different angle of approach.



Being more objective

I’d like to evaluate criticism more objectively, and determine whether it’s constructive or destructive, and whether there’s any merit to it or not, before I accept or reject it, instead of reacting automatically.



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