Live The Secret

I work in a department with about 50 people, perhaps more. My boss, who has now become a very good friend, is the only person I have can relate to on a human level.

But, lately I have really been feeling like I need more friends at work. It would be nice to have people to occasionally have great conversations with or to go to lunch with or even hang out with outside of work. But with the exception of this one extraordinary woman who I am very grateful for, I don’t feel like I can connect with anyone. I don’t feel like I have much in common with anyone. Most of the assistants are younger and seem to be in a place in life I’ve already experienced (lots of alcohol and negativity). Most of the reps and upper management are married with kids or in a place in life I don’t like think I can ever relate to (mostly because I’m a lesbian). Basically, I’m technically in a management position, but I don’t manage any people and I must spend most of my time in my office in the computer. I don’t have any cause or opportunity to really seek out relationships.

I’ve seen The Secret. And my girlfriend thinks I should affirm that the kinds of friends I’m seeking are already here, I just haven’t met them yet, or something. I am aware lately that I’ve been so focused on not having anything in common with anyone here, there’s no one I can relate to here, etc. This is doing nothing to improve my situation. How can I turn around this thinking?

I realize more and more just how important it is to be SPECIFIC and clear about what you want. The details really do matter. I intend to go through my goals and make each one more specific. The universe likes clarity because it wants to give you exactly what you ask for.. or something better!

For instance, in regard to work, I visualized and focused on having my own office, a raise and business cards. I now have all of the above but I realize I should have asked for a specific amount of money and an office with WINDOWS. Moving forward, I can now hold this knowledge in my awareness.

Manifesting is fun! It’s so cool to notice and be aware of my thought processes and beliefs.

I have successfully become aware that I need to focus on what I DO want, rather than what I don’t want. I still have to remind myself constantly, but that’s okay because it is becoming a habit.