Make my grandfathers last years of life as fufilling as possible

Things have chilled out a little. I just decided not to take any s*(^% from anybody in my family about helping my grandad. I got my sisters to go visit him. It was awesome. I also got his medicine refilled and brought him jelly beans. He loooooves jelly beans and I do too. He loves to hang with his great great grand babies especially his grandson.

Why????? This has turned into some crazy drama. He had to move in with my aunt so that she can take care of him. (she turned out to be a nut!) She is from my other side of the family (they are not related.) His house has been robbed. He has had fraud on his checking account. I had to wait a couple of days to pay my aunt due to the fraud and she totally flipped out. She accused me of lying about it. I got to help more but I feeled soooo swamped. I can hardly study for my exams after work because I ham having to deal with all the crazy. But I must stay POSITIVE. I am doing this because I am meant to do this. Everyday I am trying to help dig him out of all this craziness.

well. this is a strange place to be in. i feel like there is hardly anyone to help me with this. i have to do it.

1)try to get the other members of my family to visit. he especially would like to see the wee ones.

2)make sure his health is the best it can be. i made an appointment for him for oct 30th. it seems like a long ways off but that is the soonest they can come.

3)i got to catch up his financial matters so that he doesn’t worry about it as much. i can tell that it bothers him because whenever it is mentioned he shakes. once i catch up his mortgage i will try and get his house and order.