keep my virginity until I'm married

This married guy friend of mine revealed some startling details to me recently. He urged me not to let a guy become obsessed with just wanting to have my viriginity and not ME instead. Is that ridiculous or wat? Fact or fiction? Hmmm….it’s possible though that a guy could become so absorbed with being a girl’s first that he isnt interested in the girl as a person.

I’ve made a pact with God and myself to keep my virginity till marriage but lately my bf of almost two years wants to have sex. I luv him soo much but I won’t give in…hope he’ll understand..if he doesnt…his bad! Guys just dont understand how special something like this to us girls who want to remain celibate till marriage…they are all about the physical. But guys, listen up…most girls would much rather to have u there for her emotionally..than physically!