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jeffsoffice has written 4 entries about this goal


right now, i seriously hate myself.
i don’t understand why this feeling won’t go away…permanently!


I have a very mild case of paranoia. But paranoia all the same. It’s haunting and, most times, is hard to get rid of. Today, I’d say was a bad day.

This summer, I spent most of my time by myself, doing a lot of self-searching a detoxifying. You know, trying to make myself a better person, in my own eyes.

I don’t really want to go into specifics, but i was talking to a couple of friends and that lingering paranoia that I thought was gone, came back. The thing that angers me the most is the fact that I acknowledge the problem and try my best to get rid of it to no avail.

Today just goes to show that I still have a long way to go. I think I’ll definitely see a therapist soon. I don’t know if I can do this on my own.


i have this habit of always second-guessing myself, even if i may be right.
i’ve just always wanted to be a fair person, but the problem is i’m constantly confusing myself on what is good about me. am i smart? am i considerate enough? am i pretty? do i make bad decisions? etc…
I’m always asking myself questions, but can never come up with a direct answer.
i have to believe in myself somehow.
i’ll keep working at it.


one of my friends told me that i was a very strong person. that was the first person (besides my mom) to tell me that. i never knew i exuded that sort of energy, so now I’m starting to believe that i am strong and that not many people can even fake that. it’s been years and this is the first time ‘fake it til you make it’ has actually worked for me.

it’s an ongoing process…
best of luck everyone.

jeffsoffice has gotten 4 cheers on this goal.


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