feel less responsible for others and more responsible for myself

Working hard on this. My main downfall is that I begin to feel like a horrible person. Serve by example, not by overextending…

Instead of feeling compelled to worry about others, solve the problems of others, or simply carry the emotional burden of others I want to only solve the problems I have and carry only my own emotional burdens. I don’t want to feel weighted down by those around me any more.