I have heard MANY times that people find me very intimidating, because I tend to be blunt and honest from the frist time I meet you. I have been working veyr hard lately on watchig teh way that I speak in an effort to come across as less harsh.
As one of my other goals is to speak my true feelings, I am paying very close attention to my words. nI don’t want to be complacent about things, that is not my intention at all. I simply think that I have spent a long time speaking in a way that is not really how I want to come across, and not always the most productive and/or effective. I am know trying very hard to make sure that I do NOT interrupt, that I use a pleasant speaking tone, and that I present my thoughts ina way that is not over bearing or judgemental sounding.
