There are only two ways of doing this that i see:
1. Do nothing and take it out on yourself.
2. Do to them what they are/were ready to do to you.
I have been raised in a way where i was taught to be afraid of others, of what they might to do you….the people who raised me used to go to any lengths to make sure that they they did not upset anyone, and masked the fear with word like ‘fairness’, ‘do not judge’, ‘be considerate’, ‘look on the positive side’, ‘always see the good’....the truth was that they were cowards; afraid of their own shadows…and the one person who could help me, she just didn’t care!!
I have been limping on with my life, never once getting/taking the chance to even the score…it gives people the impression they can walk all over me…there have been people who have showed readiness to do terrible things to me…2 of them nearly ended my career…for no reason but their own ego, which both have admitted to openly…i have been exercising Option-1 all my life, and I’d sell my soul to the devil to exercise Option-2.
