control my jealousy

I have been Having bad Issue’s With Jealousy with my Husband. I’m always asking Him who did he talk to, Who is on the phone. What did they want? Why he is going where ever he is going. Then if it involves going to certian person’s houses’s that I dont like I get upset. Here latley, I have pretty much been like OMG! I can’t believe that for the past 3 years of me doing this. My Husband has actually came down to asking me,... ASKING ME! If he can do this or do that or go here or go there. I love the fact that he is asking me if I mind, being respectful in a scence of maybe I have plans that conflict with it or whatever. But the way he goes about it. He is asking me I know he is with the way he says it. there has been a few things that has happend in the past that give me a damn good reason to be annoyed or jealouse from time to time. But, He really is a Great guy. I love him dearly, he thinks of me more then I realize. And he isnt up to something 24/7 and I need to understand this. I need to realize this. I need to give him a break. I need to controll this. say something when I have a reason to. Not with anything and everything. Which here latley is what I do. So I am going to try to controll my jealousy and “possible” Controllng Issues’s. Cross my fingers Whoever reads this wish me luck! I hope I can make this work, and make it last for a long time. Later!