It appears that now I’m in my thirties, people have given up on asking me “when are you going to get married” and now it’s “do you think you will ever have children?”. How can I answer that! I’m not a hen who can just scuttle off into the chookhouse one morning and voila! There is just a wee bit more to it than that. Or people will say stuff like “oh, you’ll understand when you have kids”, assuming that’s how it turns out for everyone. Sometimes I find it getting under my skin and can’t help feeling like I’ll disappoint people, and myself, if it doesn’t turn out that way for me.
So I think I need to keep this goal in mind.
