I have to admit, this is a hard one for me. But I have to learn that sometimes people just want to vent and aren’t looking for mt advice, they are just looking for someone to hear them. I have to learn to understand that advice is fine if given, but only when asked to give it. I am going to try to be really cognizant about this and try really extremely hard to do this. I think I will start small and say I will try to do this today and see how it works out.