not be shy

So I think confidence is the issue of being shy! I think its true, just because the reason why I”m shy is because I think ppl are judging me, looking at me, I don’t fit to anyones standards of being a person, I feel that I”m ugly and not worth anyones time, I feel like I bring boredom to everyone around me, and the list goes on and a lot of thinking hard about being shy, it all comes down to CONFIDENCE!. So my question is how do I get confidence? Any one got answers please do tell and if it’s good or bad comment than comment away. Like I said you can actually learn and grow from a good and even more from a bad one! Sometimes a person doesn’t want to hear the truth cos it sucks and hurts so much, but sometimes its what we need to hear and try to move on or grow from that bad experience! So I’m ready anyone! Give it to me lol.