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Communicate & Be in control of Self


 

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khojsan has written 3 entries about this goal

1.2.2013

I love Lukasz and I love that fact that he is in my life and would not want to lose him. I value and respect him. Sometimes I dont agree with him and the goal is to Communicate without offending him. I do want to MARRY HIM and I want us to be happy for the rest of our lives. Next time I going to start to get upset because he does not say or do something the way I would want_ I will take a break, and think “how my action will affect the way he feels”. The fact is I am selfish at times like yesterday I did not care how upset he got, I did not even think about it-I just though about HOW upset I was and I just starting shouting down on him and closing my heart so he does not HURT me. The point of the argument is to try to see how the other person feels and be kind to them, yes I will to be a pushover and agree with everything he says and does, but to make my point I should only tell him, and let him act on it, because being mean DOES NOT fit anything. Argue but kindly, lovingly and with with open heart. Accept that sometimes you will not get your way and that is OK :) you are happy just to be and your happiness does not depend on another person’s actions. I am happy just to be ME :)



12.8.11

I will listin to the other person and try my hardest to put myself in their shoes :) i will stop and think about what i say caz the words i say i wont b able to take back. I might upset them and my goal is to have the understand me and accept them for who they are and what the bring. I do not need to marry them. I always have a choice. I deserve to be loved :) and i was to give someone all my love :).



12.8.11

I will listin to the other person and try my hardest to put myself in their shoes :) i will stop and think about what i say caz the words i say i wont b able to take back. I might upset them and my goal is to have the understand me and accept them for who they are and what the bring. I do not need to marry them. I always have a choice. I deserve to be loved :) and i was to give someone all my love :).



 

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