Learn how to trust

Key is to stop holding people to their promises. People break them far too often.

I have to cut him some slack. I usually don’t like talking about my relationship with my mom because I hate facing the fact that I don’t know what the fuck I’m doing but I realize it’s nice to hear from someone with experience. There’s no right or wrong way to go about a relationship. Things just happen a certain way. She said I should spend more time being happy in my relationship than worrying what could be happening when I’m not around. Breaking up is inevitable and it will happen when and if it does but right now I need to live in the moment and be happy. Why is this concept so difficult for me to understand and practice? I over think things and ruin an otherwise perfectly great relationship.

The worst part of it all is when you realize you’ve not only doubted him but yourself and all of it’s because you feel insecure about his ex-girlfriend.

She needs to stop digging up the past and so do I.