dress the way I wish I dressed every day

not so long ago, i used to get multiple compliments every day on my hair, appearance and outfits.
then i became extremely self-conscious and starting dressing extremely casually, even though i still owned many, probably most, of the same items as before.
i think one of my problems IS worrying about others’ opinions: if i get a compliment on something i like, i get a self-conscious feeling about it and might avoid wearing it again. but if i really like something and no one comments on it, i worry that no one liked it or people thought it was weird, so i might avoid wearing it. i need to stop caring!