Get away from the fly on the wall image

My aunt refered to me as being a fly on the wall in the past at a family party in January. I didn’t take this well at all. Not that I was mad or anything but who wants to be a fly on the wall when you can be a star in the sky, right? I have leaned away from the fly on the wall name by choosing to be more what I want to be rather than what other people expect me to be. I dance more (hence the picture), I sing more, I have a really loud laugh and normally I try to hide it but I have even been letting it out more and more lately.