stop looking to others for reassurance of my decisions

i broke up with my boyfriend a couple weeks ago, but we’ve been in that weird in between stage of together and not together. we’re trying to be friends, but there is animosity and love mixed up together. the other night i was going to invite him over for dinner (and whatever may follow) but realized that it was probably a bad idea and would only make our transition even harder. my horoscope said basically that i need to learn from past mistakes rather than continuing to make them over and over. when i got home i had 5 emails from my ex ranging from “you treat me like shit i hate you” to “why can’t we be friends and be cool? stop being a bitch”. THANK GOD i followed my gut and decided not to invite that little weasel over!

i married my husband because he was a great guy and loved me dearly. i wasn’t certain, but thought to myself, “How can I let go of a guy who cares about me and treats me so well?” In the end, that’s not what prevailed. I should have trusted myself when I worried that I wasn’t ready (and he DEFINATELY wasn’t either). Though we’ve only been married for 6 months, we are getting a divorce/anulment. I trusted my gut and though I’m scared about what people are going to say (“6 months? Wow, that’s a little rediculous…”) I can’t let it affect what I need to do FOR MYSELF.
You can do it! So can I!

I did ask advice from a few people, but in the end, I wanted a new job, got it. My main worry is money, I took this other job because I have the flexibility for a second job, which I might not even have to apply for. I was talking to my current boss about when I would be leaving etc. when he offered to keep me on, not just until I got through my job, but longer (maybe like a consultant?) since I know the place so well. He can’t afford to increase my salary so we’re agreed to decrease my hours…

I digress. Basically, I made a decision, followed through with it and I’m happy with the results – so far.

I don’t know whether its my instincts or my heart leading me in this direction, but I keep looking to others for advice & reassurance regarding my job path. Would I stay or should I go? (good song hee hee) Is it too early to make a decision since i haven’t been here a full year or should I not waste time at a possibly shitty job?