ladymuck is doing 3 things including…

NOT see or contact him in any way/any form for 60 days

12 cheers

 

ladymuck has written 19 entries about this goal

Day 8 10 months ago

I couldnt sleep last nite imagining him with someone else even tho i have someone to txt and date if im up for it. I just want him to suffer and be lonely for a while and to come running back. Well im defo doing my 60days anyway cuz contacting him does not work. I hope he misses me.



Day 7 10 months ago

Well i met up with the guy and as iv told u all before, i go out with the local crowd so my ex does too which is a balls. I wasnt trying to make him jealous and i was hoping hed go somewhere else. But he didnt! there was no drama. he just texted me today and said “Glad to see you have met someone nice, i hope it works out for you”. what do ye think of that? My friends said he wudnt of texted if he didnt care?????



Day 6 10 months ago

So I started again! im on day six! and im not really missing him YET, I kept myself busy all week…he does bug me that he hasnt contacted me either but that is my goal that hel come running back one day haha When i do contact him i only bring up things that annoy him and make us fight and then make me cry and miserable so the last week i felt great and free. Im texting someone new that i met out once and hopefully wel be meeting up for a drink. So at least im trying to move on…its better than last week…I went see hes just not that into you and Iv read the book! READ IT!



Day three 10 months ago

Im started all over again and now on day 3! I realised that it only upsets me when i contact him and my head is much clearer without him in my ear. Now if i think of him in a loving way, i start thinking of something he did that turns me off him and it really helps not to contact him.



Day two AGAIN 11 months ago

wondering why I have no missed calls off him. It easy when I keep myself busy..getting kinda bored NOW



Day two 11 months ago

Hey everyone,

I did it…I did One whole day. I didnt think about him all day and I kepy busy all day. I even went to kick aerobics and Pretending it was his face i was kicking hahaha…Im motivated now!

One tip for all of ye..Im really into these psychology books! At the moment Im reading Hes just not that into you by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. Iv also read their book Breakup beacause its broken. They have really useful tips for breakups and the no excuses truth to understanding men. It made me realise what I’m doing by pleading and calling and by being in a reltionship but not getting back together is just silly.

Im doing the right thing by losing contact and forgetting about him for a while. Im going be a superfox and do things that keep me busy and make me feel good, better than him. Im going be a classy chick and not a crazy chick. Im going move on and If it does come to getting back together, hes going have to do alot of chasing. Im wearing the pance now!!!!



Monday Fresh Start 11 months ago

I have to do this, he is getting really annoyed and I making myself look needy and pathetic. Contact just makes situation worse. I have to keep telling myself. Positive thinking from now on..Im looking after number one from now on..I keep ringing cuz Im hoping he might change his mind or I keep thinking theres surely something i could say to him. Now I just end up saying nice things and then I end up saying the opposite. I feel like a fool. I want to do this!!! I have to do this. It will give me my own space, it will give him space..I want to achieve so much in the 60days that itl be hes loss. I know theres a chance I could totally get over him but am i wrong to think theres a chance He could come chasing me and come back with 100% love and respect for me, well I think there is! But either way how bad….this is so hard…Im starting tomorrow and Im not looking back!!!



Starting this tomorrow 11 months ago

Ok so Happy new year everyone… I really need to do this 60days…either to move on or to get my ex back…I need to know i can do this and on the 6O day say I did it!!! I need tips and advice and I really wanna do this..Best of luck to everyone doing this and fareplay, il try my best to help you all along the way….



Untitled 20 months ago

tonights not going well for me at all…im here all alone and hes not alone!!!



Untitled 20 months ago

SO its the weekend again..and il probably hear he was with her AGAIN!!!SO im dreading that AGAIN! but it wont hurt as much as last week and next weekend wont hurt as much as this weekend!!hahaha Hes pure going to marry her hahah

Im such a worrier! In last two days i havent thought about him as much, Have a little bit of hope but trying to move on at the same rate…Like we all have to look after NUMBER ONE!!!! cuz thats what hes doing right….



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