I was trying to seek pure happiness, say peace of mind,however I find that very likely I could fall into the trap of absoluteness. Actually other than most basic needs, there is a thing called dream.
Too much dream makes people depressed, however no dream makes a person robot.
There will be some change in my way of thinking after the surgery for sure.
I just did a list of needs and wants in my life. The list covers the following catagories:
1. Physical health
2. Mental Health
5. Language learning
6. Family life
In my life, a lot of time I mix needs with wants. This is very much like purchasing an apartment or car, there should be a list of needs and wants. Needs are almost mandantory however wants are supplementory. And they are different!