Show my husband more often that I love him.

People (including me) give more attention to those who are risky, shaky, unpredictable. This is so unfair- my husband is predictably loving, supporting, crazily handsome, fun, and on and on. Yet, because I am not on my toes waiting for the shoe to drop, I think I might take him for granted. This makes me sick, physically sick, to admit this, but I must admit it in order to change it. He deserves so much love and attention, and paradoxically, I’ve shown more attention to others even though they were less deserving (by far) and I loved them less (by far), just because they were unstable. Time to change- more love, active obvious love and giving, for my handsome and fantastic husband (who is not just a husband- but it is a human being with wants, needs, sadness, disappointment, and hopes).