i want to stop cutting

ok so i ahvent cut for a while now and the best part is that i get stressed but i dont think bout cutting. i really feel pretty and smart now. the scars are still there but one day ill forget all about them. i hope it goes away completely and i can have a good life. im almost graduating and i have a whole new life coming and i need to be ready. so i hope everyone here keeps trying. its not easy but you can do it!! good luck everyone trust me it feels a whole lot better when u dont cut.

i hope veryone is doing ok. i might have cut once again even though im trying to stop but its getting worse. its like my only way out. any way i wanted to kno if anyone knows how to make these scars lighter. im am very light skinned and i dont want to show these ugly scars this summer. even when it gets warm i cant enjoy it because i have to wear long sleeve shirts to cover it up. any help please?

i really need to help myself. i have been cutting for about 3 years now and its getting worse. the cuts get deeper and more appear each time. the problem is i dont understand why i do it. i need to kno if im doing it for attention or im just too weak to handle situations. everytime something bad happens or i get too stressed i want to cut myself. it feels good while i do it but i hate seeing the scars afterwards. but usually i do it when i get into fights with my man. its like i want him to feel sorry for me but then again i just want my problems to go away. i kno its not the right way to slove things but i dont kno what else to do and im afraid that one day i might go too far and it would be too late to fix. please i need advuce plp.