to approach the guy first

I am not one for doing this as I have in the past, and it’s just laugh/rejection/or they stand there thinking are you mad! And naturally I get embarrassed. So I gave up. Now I’m thinking of giving it another try. Instead of waiting and walking past this so called “Mr Right” saying in my head he’s gorgeous, I should possibly use my initiative stop and talk to him…....and get rejected, again! This will be a miracle for me.