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Stop saying "sorry" so often

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Sorry for saying sorry 3 years ago

I definitely do this, and I need to stop. I feel like it makes me look weak and responsible for bad things, when I am neither. I apologize for little misunderstandings, for things don’t require an apology, etc. Then, sometimes, I apologize for saying sorry when someone tells me there’s no need to be sorry. I think that maybe some of this comes from my childhood, where keeping the peace and having someone to blame for bad things were really important (and really related). I think that’s when I started the “I’m sorry” thing. So this might be a hard habit to break. . . .



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