Stop being so nice

I’m def working hard on this…
Usually I can’t say no. . but last night a guy wanted to hang out with me, and usually i say alright and just see what happens but
i knew last night all he wanted was to try to get in my pants and usually i would hang out then just shut them down but last night i was like No. I was firm and told him no. i avoided putting myself in a bad situation and i stopped being so damn nice. :)

im so proud of myself. yay.

Its so frustrating. I am one of the friendliest people ever.
I beileve in the concept of treating others the way I expect to be treated but its just coming back to bite me in the ass. So many friends, family and just everyday people in my life are taking advantage of me. I’m just so nice to everyone, they’re taking advantage of it. They dont appreciate it and I’m so sick of it. How can I be alittle more firm with people so they won’t be tempted to take advantage of me? People are so selfish, its disgusting. I do so much for my friends and family and some just don’t care or appreciate it. Grr.