Be less needy

Hello out there,
I’ve never posted to any site like this before so this is new. In fact, I should probably look around a bit before I post but here I am so… I’m not sure if I’m needy per say. I’m always that person who looks out for everyone else and I guess I’m a little pissed when it doesn’t come back. Does that make me needy? I told my husband I wanted to divorce him last night after 7 years together. I’m a SAHM of a 2 year old wonderful baby girl, and I love it, but I currently have laryngitis and bronchitis and you can’t take a day off when your a SAHM. Anyway, big blow out with hubby because he hates taking time off from work, and then I blame myself for being needy. No, I know I’m needy and I hate it. Shouldn’t it be OK to be a little needy? I mean, isn’t it healthy to need people? What happened to what goes around comes around? I just don’t know anymore…. Relationships are just too complicated.