makegood in Washington, D.C. is doing 40 things including…

pay attention when people are talking.

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lost my blackberry -- what'll I do? 2 years ago

Although I feel like someone just cut off my right arm, it has had the interesting effect of forcing me to sit quietly as people are talking in meetings. I find that when my sub-conscious mind is focused on them, the ideas come flying.

The blackberry should reappear shortly, but perhaps I’ll start “forgetting” it.



when I'm really listening, I'm 2 years ago

well-rested
turned toward the person who is speaking
concentrating
sitting in some kind of open position (arms open, hands on table)
well-fed
watching their eyes, hands, body language
putting myself in their position



this is not going as well as I'd like 2 years ago

I am trying to think a lot about the Buddhist exhortation to be present. But I’m so preoccupied… with my blackberry, with the nagging voice in my head that’s narrating the conversation, with wanting to talk.



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