Take a job that would double your present (fairly comfortable) income and require you to be gone 21 days a month plus a two hour commute each way and/or require you to sell your house (in this market!!) and, while the job would not be so stressful in itself, your family situation would be because you would rarely be home.
or
Take a different job with a 5% paycut and less earning potential that enables you to actually be home every night with two weeks of the month OFF, less stress in general on the job, no move, no upheaval. Opportunity to pick up side work, if necessary.
or
Stay with current job that is totally stressful with long days, but home every night, but sometimes working weekends or out of town, with potential to increase income by about half over the long haul? Still somewhat available to family, but not always.
