This means not only trying to participate in activities and be more outgoing in social situations, but weeding out the “friends” that aren’t really that positive. I wanna spend time with people who understand me, my values, my personality, and make me feel validated. Not that I’ll write off others completely or that I have some crazy strict criteria, but realizing that I maybe should spend less time with people who fit into none of the above. I have a lot of aquaintances, but i dont’ have to be best friends with everybody. I’m finally realizing that it’s ok, and it’s not always my fault (or anyone’s necessarily) if we’re not destined to be BFF’s. Ahhhh, it feels good. Now I just need to push toward putting my words into action. I think this will be an extraordinarily positive experience.
mandylyn has written 1 entry about this goal
To me,
16 months ago
