Date again - the *right* kind of man for me

It could be the holiday season approaching.. all I know is without a doubt I do want a man in my life… I’m too young to be alone!

Now to get out there! Where and how to start?! I have no idea!

to entertain the idea of having a man in my life again…

With employment back on track again, I will be making more of an effort to meet new people in a variety of places to at least up the odds!!

Last week I emailed a guy I used to work with, and received a lovely, email back. Hey I’d go out with him in about a nanosecond.. but not knowing exactly how to approach it….where is the balance with not being too pushy, but letting someone know that you are available and interested?

During the past two months I’ve had a number of people comment about ‘my husband’, and when I say “I’m not married’ invariably I’ve received a look of surprise with the comment “But YOU wear rings!”. At first I thought was just an incredibly old school way of thinking!

Apparently not!

Just a couple of days ago a guy that I’ve always thought was a super nice guy, handsome, great personality, discovered that I was single, a surprised look came over his face, and he revealed to me, that he had been checking me out but quickly dismissed me because of a silver ring! I though oh man this has to change!

Now that ring is on my right hand!

I think I’m actually ready to date again. Had a date about a month ago that turned out to be, totally not the guy for me and that’s fine. A weird set of circumstances happened !

But what it’s shown me is that yes men do look my way. I think for the past while, my focus has so been about work and family and other priorities that needed my attention! I didn’t have the time or energy or desire whatsover.

Now I think it would be really, really nice to have a guy in my life again. Someone to share experiences, laughter, outings, and feel a sense of connection with…

It is time! I’m feeling strong and ready to meet new people.. and wouldnt it be lovely to meet a nice man to spend some time with?

Now how I go about this??? That is where the challenge is!