have a successful marriage

This is not an easy year to pass together.

But in these 365 days, I do realize marriage has made us understand ,care and treasure each other. No couple can survive without this.

And we may work hard to many upcoming anniversaries and happy life in future.

We heard so many newborns from our friends.

For us, well, maybe it’s too early consider this issue, while raising kids is a luxury rather than a moral responsibility, making them successsful and decent is another big assignment for parents nowadays.

I hope when it’s the moment we become parents, we are truly ready and can be good parents.

We’ve had our honeymoon finally. It’s a bit belated, but we still enjoyed it a lot and understand each other more!

I long for more chances of travelling in future! Of course, with him!

It’s so hard to define or give any concrete meanings of this lifelong task!

But afterall, I can say it’s about the following:

Marriage is about sharing: love, strengths, weaknesses, laughters, sorrows, hopes and $. I do think that dating is different from marriage. When in a married relationship, you de-construct and construct constantly of your life and maybe his / her life too. You may also know much deeper about him. It sounds cool and also cruel if you can face the reality and truth behind the person you love.

And commitment comes with acceptance, tolerance and compromise, with strong the backup of love.

Agree or not?

This is a process of growing up.

A process for a girl to change into an independent woman.

Realize that freedom and self-centredness has to be put aside involuntarily.

Is that true? I wonder but guess so.

Time is running out and not many things have done! And sth. have come up in my mind now.

It’s the value of money and its role plays in the wedding ceremony. Don’t forget the ceremony is the beginning of the marriage.

Money can buy everything beautiful, extragravant and also people's smiles.

But, do I really need to spend a lot and can it ensure me a successful marriage?

Never never. Definitley not. Need to work out a better plan and makes things right.

ya, different feelings pour out when the news is announced. How complicated is that? I just realize it’s never the business of 2 people only. I lost nearly a week’s sleep and being neuroic over things. But the main point is, we should communicate more to make things smooth and happy for everyone.

to be continued.